For Your Better Life

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This is how appreciation works. When you appreciate something you are, by a classic definition, adding value to it. Its value is increased by your appreciation. This is a good habit to engage in for your better life.

• Here are a few definitions of appreciation.

  • An expression of admiration, approval, or gratitude

  • Recognition of the quality, value, significance, or magnitude of people and things.

  • Appreciation of an asset is an increase in its value and price, especially over time.

As you appreciate the important people and all the amazing capabilities, privileges and things that you have, you are literally adding value to them.

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If you speak to someone about things that you deeply appreciate they will get the value you are adding. With some practice you can turn bad attitudes into good attitudes and good ones into great ones. You can turn a mediocre life into a better life and a better life into a great one.

Appreciation Unlocks Your Bright Future

A good exercise is to keep a gratitude journal and write in it every night before you go to sleep. This way the last thing you are thinking about before sleep is what you appreciate and are grateful for.

This simple practice will help you to see how many amazing things you have in your life and how blessed you are. I recommend that you try this for a couple of months. It trains your mind to focus on the good things in your life.

Reality is changeable to how we see it. When you appreciate the people that you are around you will find that valuable people surround you. The more you appreciate what you have in your life the more you find that amazing things and circumstances show up. You increase your magnetism.

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A Bright Future is Enhanced by Celebration

Think of all the important people in your life and what you appreciate and admire about them. Make a point of telling them and notice how as their value goes up in your eyes that your value goes up in theirs. This can improve you life and increase your overall joy.

In every situation you are in you can choose to appreciate and add value or depreciate and take away value. The more you focus on appreciating, the more value you add and the more fanastic life becomes.

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The Attitude of Gratitude is probably something you have heard of before. That is because a bunch of professional speakers, including me, have used it in presentations or done entire presentations on the topic (I have). What is it and how does it work?

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The attitude of gratitude is a state of mind and a way of thinking that has you focus on what you are grateful for. Our conscious mind focuses on one thing well at a time. If you are thinking about why what is happening is great, or that a person you know is awesome you are not focused on why what is happening or that person is bad.

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This reminds me of what Einstein said, “You can not simultaneously prepare for and prevent war.” How that translates is “you can not simultaneously appreciate someone or something and depreciate it that at the same time”. There has been research on optical illusions where two images are contained in the same picture. A classic one from the early 1900’s is below.

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Before you read any further look at the picture. What do you see? If you already see an image look and see if you can find another image before you read any further.

What did you see?

An old woman?

A young girl?

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Try this experiment if you can see both women. Focus on just one image, first the old woman. When you focus on the old woman the young girl disappears. The opposite is true also. If you focus on the young girl the old woman fades out. You see only one image at a time.

Once you know what you are looking for you can switch back and forth quickly. You can get to the point where you let your eyes go out of focus and from a less focused place you can recognize features of both. Yet as soon as you focus on one, that image becomes more prominent and the other fades out.

Check out this Positive Book for you to focus on.

• What we notice and focus on about people and situations is a choice. If you do not like what
  you are seeing you can change it.

  • You can have a better life.

  • You can have a better attitude.

You can focus on appreciating whatever you are looking at and your mind will find good.

It sounds simple, appreciate what you are looking at then things look better. Choose a positive appreciative focus and you improve your life and the lives of those around you. Be a value adder.